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Want a Better Listener? Protect Those Ears

Want a Better Listener? Protect Those Ears – NYTimes.com

For football fans, the indelible image of last month’s Super Bowl might have been quarterback Drew Brees’s fourth-quarter touchdown pass that put the New Orleans Saints ahead for good. But for audiologists around the nation, the highlight came after the game — when Mr. Brees, in a shower of confetti, held aloft his 1-year-old son, Baylen.

The boy was wearing what looked like the headphones worn by his father’s coaches on the sideline, but they were actually low-cost, low-tech earmuffs meant to protect his hearing from the stadium’s roar…[Want a Better Listener? Protect Those Ears - NYTimes.com]

 

Missing your baby

I’ve missed quite a few things in my life. The feeling creates a yearning like no other. But the last four days has been the hardest to date.

Being away from home for four days on business is norm for me. However, doing that with a three month old at home has been brutal for me. There’s nothing like spending parts of your day with your child and when that is removed momentarily, it kills ya.

It’s not like I can text message or call Amaya, so I found myself constantly reviewing photos on my phone. I sit anxiously at the airport for my return flight home so I can spend the evening with Amaya and Nisha. I can’t wait to see my two loves.

Afterall, it’s the little things that matter most…

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Happy 3 Month Birthday Amaya

Happy 3 Month Birthday Amaya! Love you baby.

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Amaya February Update

Quick update on Amaya and parenthood…
 

The last few weeks was filled with baby group gatherings and friends visiting Amaya.  She adores the attention and is quite active with all of her visitors.  Nisha also started work again so that was a huge drastic shift in parenthood but we settled in after a few days.  Both sets of grandparents have provided amazing support.
    

She’s sleeping thru the night for about 7 hours straight.   Woohoo!  We feel it’s primarily due to this new blanket we bought called the Miracle Blanket.  We were skeptical at first but this thing is pretty amazing.  So far it works and Amaya sleep quite peacefully….and so do her parents.  Amaya is making all kinds of sounds and usually her and I will pretend to have our own conversation in our unique dialect.  At points, it goes on for minutes.  I could only imagine what is going thru her head.

    
Rolling over is going to be Amaya’s next big achievement.  While on her playmat, she tries really, really hard but is caught up with her own arm.  Now she’s spinning on the floor like a breakdancer since that arm stops the actual roll over process.  But any day now she will make the full turn.  She personally gets so frustrated at not being able to do when she gets so, so, sooo close.  We give her that extra nudge once in awhile to boost her confidence.

   
She is smiling on que.  She is recognizing our voices when we enter a room.  Her personality is getting bigger and bigger.  I must agree that they grow too fast.  Here are a few recent pictures but there is an entire collection on the Amaya page in the Month Two album.
    

Three Musketeers

         

The Baby Group: Amaya, Sanaya, Ishaan, Sajan

Being goofy on the playmat.

       

Ready for the SuperBowl

     

Two Month Birthday

     

Another play group: Sofia, Naveen & Amaya

    

The superstar.

   

Look, no hands!

    

Amaya & Ishaan

  

Ishaan & Amaya

 

Amaya & Sajan

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The Causemopolitan – Using Your Birthday For Good

An amazing individual, Sloane Berrent, recently interviewed me about past fundraising efforts.  Below is the interview.  You must follow Sloane and her incredible activities.  She generous, funny, ambitious and is constantly moving forward.  Read her bio on her blog, The Causemopolitan.  Also, check out the piece on her recent cross-country Birthday Fundraising Campaign that was extremely successful.  I’m honored to have Sloane in my circle of friends.
 

Dev Dugal’s Birthday Wish

Posted by Sloane Berrent in Events, Giving Back on January 22, 2010 | no responses

Dev is an amazing guy that I got to know in Los Angeles through a mastermind group that I was part of. The group continues to be some of the most dynamic and entrepreneurial people I have ever known and a terrific support group. Dev works in the restaurant/hospitality industry and so is in the amazing position of having a space that he can donate for fundraisers and to help nonprofits. The birthday campaign he talks about below doesn’t do his philanthropy justice and I’d like to thank Dev for all he does to help causes – not just on his birthday but throughout the year.

And now, the Dev Dugal interview on his birthday fundraiser:

1) Tell me about your birthday and fundraising campaign. When was your brithday? Was it a milestone? What was your inspiration? What nonprofit did you partner with? Did you tell them in advance? What was your fundraising goal (if you had one) and did you reach it?

I’ve been working with non-profits for quite some time. I realized over time which fundraising events work and which ones don’t produce. I realized that instead of bringing down the life of the party by jumping on the mic and professing the goodness of the non-profit, the structure needed to be tweaked. What has worked for me in the past is to charge people in advance or at the door and collect in advance. Spread the message about the organization thru the mediums used to invite and provide subtle reminders via auto-run presentation/DVD loop to the guests. Also a status update after the event was also fruitful.

Most people want to do good. The spectrum ranges from getting involved to simply cutting out a check. I decided I would structure my fundraising efforts around the latter and if they got more involved, it was gravy.

I’ve done about 4 events on my birthday throughout the years and they have all been fruitful. It’s a good reason to get people out when they have many choices and in the end, the non-profits win with increased exposure as well as fundraising. The organization I partnered with the most is Manav Sadhna. I had personal goals of $5,000 that I didn’t share and we reached it twice. It’s always a win-win situation.

2) Did you use online tools? Did you have a birthday party in person? What was your way to connect with people and tell them about this?

I primarily used social media to spread the word and collected general invite guest list via evite with a direct link to paypal.

3) What have you done for past birthdays?

All the events have been at bars in Southern California. My relationships allow me to generate donors for product like alcohol or deals with the bar operators for drink specials for my guests. It always works out and everyone has a great time. My motto is keep it simple with the least amount of overhead for the maximum amount of output in terms of fundraising and exposure.
4) Would you do a fundraiser for your birthday again? Was it easier or harder than you thought it would be?

I enjoy it and of course I would do it again!

5) What was the best part? Did you connect with someone you had lost contact with? Any one story you’d like to share?

The best part is when it all comes together. Even better is when I know that the non-profit is in a better position that before the event. It’s not all about the money, but it is the fact that individuals know that my events are structured this way and they keep coming back for more.

6) What advice would you give to someone else who wanted to throw a fundraiser but didn’t know where to start?

It’s a no brainer! Don’t over think it and just imagine what types of events you are not bored at and organize it the same way. Get 10 of your closest friends to commit to get 10 of their friends to commit. Have friends take ownership in the event with you as if it is their own. Create invitation on their behalf so they can also distribute to their network as if they are hosting. It works every time and before you know it, you have a solid guest list of 200+.

Related posts:
Denise Wakeman’s Birthday Campaign
Beth Kanter’s Birthday Wish
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Samosa House East in Culver City

Delicate handling of pani puri leads to some tasty rewards at Samosa House East in Culver City.

http://www.latimes.com/features/food/la-fo-find20-2010jan20,0,6853610.story

This is how to eat an order of pani puri at Samosa House East, home of some of the best Indian snacks in Los Angeles. First, roll up your sleeves. Pani puri is chaat — Indian street snack food — and demands to be eaten with the fingers, lustily, and with some degree of abandon.

Then get ready to move. Pani puri comes in parts, and it demands a certain degree of focus and speed to assemble. There’s the puri — half a dozen or so egg-sized, eggshell-delicate balls of crisp, transparent fried bread. And there is the filling: raw onions, raw tomatoes, chickpeas, intensely sauced with mint chutney and tamarind. Finally, and most important, there’s a small cup of jarijirra — dense green mint water, laced with cumin and fennel.

You place a puri in your palm, and carefully, oh so carefully, break a small hole in the top. Take the utmost care not to breach the bottom of the shell. Slight, quick taps of your forefinger will do. Imagine that you are a tiny woodpecker, gently exploring a bonsai tree. Then spoon in some of the filling through the hole — gently, or you’ll shatter the shell.

Now, bring the laden shell close to the mint water and, quickly as you can, spoon in as much mint water as the shell will hold. Work fast! From the moment the first bit of mint water goes in, you have about five seconds before the whole thing loses structural integrity and collapses onto your shirt. Throw the whole thing into your mouth and bite.

If you’ve done it right, you’ll be rewarded with one of the most explosive bites on the planet: a shattering of crisp bread, followed by a gush of chilled, crisp, refreshing mint water and then the crunch and chew of raw onions and chickpeas. It’s sort of like a gazpacho hand grenade.

‘It’s fun food!’

Filling and eating a pani puri is a narrative experience, with mounting tension, climax and the clear possibility of wet disaster. “In India, you’re standing on the street, and the seller’s filling and handing puris to you and you keep eating and eating and eating, and he counts how many you ate in the end,” explains Samosa House owner Vibha Bhojak. “It’s fun food!”

The sister restaurants — the original Samosa House and Samosa House East, which opened in Culver City about a month ago — are casual places: Order at the steam table, bring your cafeteria tray to your table. A lot of people wander in for takeout. (Culver City recently also has seen the opening of another Indian restaurant, Bawarchi on Venice Boulevard.)

The entire menu is vegetarian, and most of it is vegan. Bhojak first encountered the idea of veganism when she immigrated to the United States; she was deeply impressed. She has modified her cooking methods to match.

Neither Samosa House uses butter or cream. She substitutes ground nuts for cream in her sauces but breaks from veganism for yogurt-based curries and paneer (farmer’s cheese).

Natural flavors

Gone is the lush richness of ghee (Indian clarified butter).

Bhojak largely cooks with olive oil. “Cream kills the flavors of food,” Bhojak says. “Lentil, for example, has its own flavor, and you lose it when you use butter and cream.” The result is curiously reminiscent of, say, Berkeley cooking: quiet spicing; clear, light sauces; and a focus on keeping the natural flavors of vegetables.

The strongest flavor in her squash curry is the deep, warm flavor of fresh squash. Whether this represents a loss of authenticity or the natural evolution of Indian cooking is for you to decide.

The mildest dishes are the soy-based mock fish and mock chicken curries. The wildest dish on the steam table is usually the jackfruit: a meaty, savory dish, full of warm, fermented energy — Bhojak doesn’t mask the subtle bitterness of jackfruit.

But the best stuff at Samosa House East — the stuff that challenges the best of Artesia’s Little India — is from the tiny chaat menu, all fresh-made for textural perfection.

The shining star of Samosa House East is bhel puri — a great pile of chunky chickpea flakes, puffed rice, raw tomatoes, raw onions, chickpeas and many other little crunchy spiced tidbits. It’s almost a study in variations of crunch: about eight distinct crispy textures, tossed together with vividly tangy, sweet, minty, sour sauce.

It’s the awesome Indian love child of a cold summer salad and Chex snack mix.

For a perfect finish, drive east a few blocks to the original Samosa House, for Bhojak’s gorgeously moist, cheesy, sweet burfi — like dairy fudge. It’s one of the crown dessert jewels of the Westside. It is, however, not vegan.

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For my cricket loving friends…

YouTube Dabbles in Live Sports With IPL Matches

YouTube will begin live-streaming Indian Premier League cricket matches this March. It’s possible that the matches will be viewable in countries like the United States that don’t currently have a place to watch IPL matches on traditional TV.

YouTube has been a destination for both the lPL and live streaming before, just not at the same time. It streamed U2’s Rose Bowl concert to 10 million viewers across seven continents last year, and there’s an IPL cricket channel that shows pre-recorded highlights from league matches.

Live sports coverage has been one of the greatest reasons to keep those cable or satellite subscriptions, so YouTube moving into this area could be another step towards the dominance of Internet-based TV. There have actually been live-streaming options for sports online before; they just usually come with subscription fees. For example, ESPN Insider members have access to live streams of much of what the network of sports channels covers.

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Babycakes

To kick off Amaya’s 2 month birthday, we ventured into Downtown LA to the recently opened Babycakes. Picked up a handful of goodies and Amaya wasn’t fussy at all. Gee, I wonder why…

Babycakes in DTLA

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New Year = New Adventures

Happy New Year y’all!

A quick update on what has been going on.  I’ve added a few features to the blog.  The most important is you can now subscribe to the blog so you get emailed when updates to indeed take place.  It will come right ot your inbox.  It’s listed as Email Alerts in the sidebar.  I’ve also connected the blog with my Facebook so everything gets updated smoothly at one time.  Also, the Amaya page is dedicated to albums that gets updated frequently.  Be sure to note there are more than 21 images per album and there are multiple pages.  The plan is to have more regular posts.  Some Amaya related and the rest interesting items I find amusing.

Holiday time was just full of spending time with family.  Lots of chilling around, eating, laughing and Amaya was showered with presents of course.   Since there was no shortage of people reaching to hold her, she loved the attention.  Here are some pics during xmas time:

Great Grandmother

Great Grandmother

Xmas tree pose

Falling asleep in daddy's arms

Hari dada & Beena dadi

 
A few of Amaya’s cha cha’s (uncles) flew into meet her for the first time. Parag cha cha flew in from Switzerland and Sundeep cha cha came down from San Francisco to spend quality time with the family. Again, Amaya loved the attention was so happy to meet her cha cha’s. She had them wrapped her finger already and is anticipating that full ride scholarship to USC they promised.

Parag Cha Cha attempting to convert Amaya to a Bruin. She wasn't having it.

Sundeep Cha Cha pushing Amaya to get SAG credited asap.

 
Amaya had  many out of state visitors including aunts and uncles from Oklahoma.  Some even drove all the way from Oklahoma to see her for one night.  What an amazing gesture and feeling!  So lucky to have family like that.

Navnit dada

Sumi dadi

Tulsa representin'

Priya Masi - they're almost the same height!

Cultural beliefs didn’t allow us to take Amaya out of the household until 40 days after her birth.  So after xmas we performed a few religious ceremonies and then hit the town.  We actually got to take Amaya out in the stroller and attempted our first meal at a restaurant.   It went really well and Amaya loves to be outdoors which is great since Dodgers season is right around the corner!  She also got to meet her friend that was born a few weeks before and discussed girl band names.

Bhakta Temple - Day 40

Getting more blessings

Try this hat on for size

First stroller ride at the mall.

Outdoor feeding.

Amaya, meet Sanaya. Sanaya, meet Amaya.

We also had some real funny moments in the last few weeks.  One was what our friend likes to reference as a “terrorist poop”.  It’s exactly what is sounds like and I have the pics to disgust you with.  We were driving home from dinner and Amaya was in the car seat being odd.  She recently started talking up a storm now with various sounds so she was going on and on.  Little did we know it was a distraction for what we were to find when we got home.  Here’s what we had to deal with when we got home…

UH OH.

Terrorist Poop. Nisha what did you feed this girl?

Once in awhile Amaya will get you with a terrorist poop but everyday she delivers that gorgeous smile.  It’s priceless.  I love my baby girl.

Priceless

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Holiday Cheer

It’s our first holidays with Amaya are we are so blessed to have her in our lives.  This week is filled with family time and spending quality time with each other.  The elders are finding the time to share details on our childhoods and how naughty we were.  We constantly hear “When Dev was a baby….” or “Nisha used to do [insert bad baby act] when she was just a few months old”.  It’s a great time for reflection and an even better time to think about the future.

In the morning, Nisha brings Amaya to our bed and it’s the best feeling to be able to roll over and see your precious child waking up with you.  She stretches her tiny little body and looks all around the room. Then she hears my voice and turns her head and does her best attempt at speaking.  Then one of two things happen; she either cuts a mean fart and smirks or she starts to wail.  I’ll take the fart and smile any day.  Sometimes Amaya farts so loud that she surprises herself with the act. She has this surprised look on her face like “Did I just do that?” and I can’t help but to start laughing out loud.

We had some yummy ice cream cake last week for Amaya’s one-month birthday.  We were able to celebrate with both sets of grandparents and Amaya looked so cute that evening.  She was even able to iChat with her cousing in Portland and her family in Oklahoma.  We all got a chance to sing happy birthday to her via the cool technology.

Last night we celebrated again.  This time for Nisha.  As a joke, we got her a [red velvet] cake and wrote a message that read “Dear Nisha – Welcome Back!  Love, AE Jeans.”  The joke is that Nisha is so excited she can fit in her regular American Eagle jeans again and not wear the preggo pants! 

I’m also excited to share that FOUR more friends living in SoCal had babies in the last 10 days.  It’s a pretty exciting time of the year for many of us and I just wanted to wish happy holidays to our family and yours.

- Love, Dev, Nisha & Amaya.

Enjoying bath time.

Yummy cake for Amaya

iChatting with the cousins

Arguing over who gets the first piece of cake

grandparents

grandparents

grandparents

Happy 1-Month Birthday Amaya!

Family portrait

Welcome back to your regular jeans!